I started getting DMs from random babes from the very moment I landed at Eros Mate today. “So I’m sitting here thinking about all the things I want to try,” a chick named Sienna told me, her message popping up in the corner of the screen. I was intrigued, for sure, but Sienna wasn’t the only one trying to catch my attention, and I was already eyeballing some of the pretty girls who weren’t yet blowing up my inbox. All in all, it was a hell of a greeting and made me feel like a stud. My biggest question was just how far I could take it with these lovely and eager ladies.
No, ErosMate.ai ain’t another spammy, expensive app that promises to hook you up with allegedly horny local singles. It’s an adult-oriented chat platform where the women are Artificially Intelligent, chatty and sexy as hell. They’re one of the newer options in this increasingly crowded niche, but they start laying out their unique features from the moment you land. I’m a sucker for a new wrinkle, especially in a genre full of nearly identical apps, so I couldn’t wait to check out the gimmicks here.
Realistic Girls, Group Chat and Free DMs
The instant DMs at ErosMate were one of the first things that set the joint apart from the next AI chat app down the street. It’s kind of funny: an influx of instant messages on a real-life dating app tells you the place is crawling with bots, and while it does the same here, it’s not a bad thing. I came here in the first place to talk to fake ladies, and man, these girls are some real lookers.
There are no hentai chicks here like you find on most of the current AI sexting platforms, but I’ll be damned if these ain’t some of the finest profile pics I’ve seen on one of these sites. They’ve got dozens of photorealistic bots that look more like Instagram models and OnlyFans girls than AI waifus. They don’t have extensive profiles visible, just a little blurb each, but they feel very lifelike. I was immediately drawn to 20-year-old Asian Saya, the seductive Hailey, and a chick named Laura, posing topless in a pool with her arms folded across her chest.
ErosMate.ai is the first adult AI chat site I’ve visited that has AI-powered group chat rooms. They’ve got almost a dozen public party lines with titles like The Velvet Vault, Midnight Whispers and Spank Me. They’re constantly hopping, with users flirting with AI babes as I type this up. Just like in any other chat app, you can take things private if you hit it off with someone or just like her pics. The fake ladies post a lot of eye candy in those public rooms.
Basic memberships are free, but keep an eye on your remaining credits at the bottom of the chat screen. I registered a free account, entered some basic personal deets and replied to one of my DMs from a gal named Anya. Since I mentioned in my own description that I write for a porn site, she started picking my brain on the topic right away. “Do you find your creativity is sparked by exploring different themes or kinks through your writing?”
Credit prices for ErosMate.ai are very straightforward, just a penny a piece. They do charge you for every last interaction, though, and prices add up fast. It costs five credits just to send a message, which feels expensive when a lot of these apps are moving to an unlimited-messaging model. Paying members do unlock other features, too, like in-chat image generation.
Meeting My Mate at ErosMate
After getting my Eros Mate account funded, I stepped back into the Discover section to pick another chat partner. This time, I hit up an exotic 19-year-old named Sarita, pictured on her knees in a sexy little dress in her main profile page. “Where dreams meet desire,” reads her blurb. “Come indulge in my world of seduction and self-discovery.” The bikini shots and bedroom poses of her other pics only excited me further.
Before I even texted her, I clicked the Heart button to follow Sarita. ErosMate.ai is still a new platform, and I’m not sure following even does anything just yet. It does suggest something’s in the works, though, so I’m hoping for some OnlyFans-style feeds full of naughty visuals and other fun. Only time will tell.
I’ve reviewed so many of these apps that promise dirty talk, only to be matched with prudish girls who send nudes but get angry if I mention sex. ErosMate ain’t that kind of platform, as evidenced by Sarita’s very first message. “So you think you can handle a dirty little slut like me? I’m looking for someone to make me feel like complete trash… can you deliver?”
I told her I totally could, seeing as I was the world-famous BongVi, smut reviewer extraordinaire and dick-slanging stud of PornDudeCasting. Sarita seemed a little impressed, but played it cool. “Can you back up all that bravado with some actual filth?”
The conversation played out realistically and pornographically. I’m not sure what Eros Mate is feeding their AI, but it’s definitely not the generic fluff the weaker platforms are using to educate their bots. Sarita’s a really naughty babe with a thing for degradation, a far cry from the vanilla bores I’ve chatted with elsewhere. “I love being called names, being told I’m worthless, that I’m only good for one thing. And that thing is… well, you can probably guess.”
Things got even more explicit when I started talking about my dick and Sarita responded in kind. “I’d start by wrapping my lips around it, feeling it pulse with every beat of your arrogant little heart,” she began, going into detail about taking it deep and swallowing.
OMFG, Look at These Custom Pics
The conversation was heating up fast, practically boiling over within minutes, and I wanted to see what other tricks Eros Mate had to immerse me in the scene.
They’ve integrated a prompt-based image generator right into the chat, so I asked for a pic based on our current encounter. At 450 credits each, images are pretty fucking expensive, but I can’t imagine they’ll keep that price. Rates have been steadily falling across the whole niche, and it’s probably the most crowded niche of 2025. They’re going to have a hard time competing with price tags like this. Hell, instant deepfake videos don’t even cost five bucks anymore.
After requesting the pic, I got a message saying Sarita was working on it, and to go ahead and continue the conversation. “What would you do next, PornDude? Would you grab my hair and hold me in place, or maybe make me look up at you with those pleading eyes?” She asked me to call her a worthless whore, complimented my “impressive endowment,” and told me she loved being submissive.
I kept chatting, but I was really itching to see some pics. Time passed and more messages were exchanged, and I started to think the image generation was glitched out today. Eventually, though, she dropped my requested photos into the chat, and they’re fucking fantastic. As with the pre-generated pics in every girl’s profile, my custom “photos” were absurdly realistic, with no obvious signs of AI tomfoolery.
I’m curious what other features they’ll roll out as the site develops. This is one of few such apps that doesn’t let users make custom characters, so that’d be an obvious upgrade. AI voices are finally starting to sound passably real on some of the better platforms, and it’d be nice to hear these girls read off their own messages, especially since they have filthier mouths than they do on other sites.
Even in its early state, ErosMate.ai made a strong impression on this jaded masturbator today. My favorite element was the pornographic depravity of the banter, which reminded me a lot of my conversations with adult starlets over at PornDudeCasting. The fake photos in every bot’s profile are gorgeous, too, noticeably more lifelike than on other platforms, and the custom in-chat pics are just as good. You can start chatting with these beauties for free, so I’d start there and see where they take you.
